WHAT KIND OF SERVICES DO YOU OFFER AND WHAT WILL MY SESSION BE LIKE?
That completely depends on you. We are all unique and constantly evolving and therefore no two sessions are ever the same. Common elements include loving therapeutic touch, moving into the space of allowing and receiving, listening, and holding you in loving embrace. In the first session, we will spend a lot of time talking and moving into feelings. You are free to open up and discuss the things with me that you might be afraid to discuss with others. Our work here is to clear shame and negative patterns so you can live more freely and feel more vitality and joy. I want you to learn how to live in the highest vibration of your Be-ing and this involves energetic healing and learning how to calm the mind and live from the heart. If we are meeting through Zoom, we will follow a similar format.
WHAT IS TANTRA AND HOW CAN IT HELP ME?
Tantra has unfortunately taken on a distorted view in the West, which I write about in my blog section. This is just a symptom of our collective shame, repression, and energetic imbalance. Tantra is about the inner marriage of our masculine and feminine energies, known as Shakti and Shiva. We learn in tantra how to be fully present with ourselves, how to tap into the elements, and how to use our vital force energy, known as kundalini. Tantra is very broad. I have been initiated into a very old tantric lineage that has very little to do with the 'neo-Tantra' of the West, however, I do believe that neo-Tantric practices, such as eye gazing and sublimation of sex energy, can be very useful in today's world. Ultimately, tantra is about union with our own divinity and about 'thinning the veil' and dissolving the illusion of separateness. We can weave that in whatever way is most authentic to us.
WHAT KIND OF TAOIST METHODS DO YOU USE?
Taoism is founded in Chinese philosophy designed to help one reach their highest potential through a comprehensive physical and spiritual system. Techniques are designed to increase one's chi, or vital energy. Healing Love is the part of this system that addresses sexual health. Taoists believe that sexual energy, or jing chi, is the most powerful source of energy we have. It is this energy which feeds the body and the soul. This work focuses on expanding the jing chi, or universal life force, so it can feed the vital chi of the body as well as the spiritual chi. You will learn to harness your sexual energy and expand it in a way that nourishes the body, mind, and soul. Microcosmic orbit, healing sounds, and inner smile are some tools you may learn to use during session.
DO YOU WORK WITH PEOPLE WITH CHRONIC OR ACUTE ILLNESS?
I am still a licensed critical care nurse and I am absolutely honored to receive you in your present state. I have an excellent foundation in pharmacology, disease process, and understanding all of the systems of the body and how they are working together.
After 20 years of working in Western medicine, I have a deep understanding of how it works. It may "cure", but it does not heal. Healing comes through deep introspection, inner child work, energetic repatterning and rewiring, and recalling the fragments of our soul that we lost through trauma and social conditioning. Western medicine may "cure" a particular illness, but it will most likely show up again in some other way until we do the deeper work.
DO YOU HELP PEOPLE WITH PROSTATE ISSUES OR ED?
Absolutely. I am actually passionate about prostate health, as prostate issues are something that so many men unnecessarily face at some point in their life. Sitting, driving, improper posture.... there are a multitude of functional reasons for prostate issues that are rejected by the medical community, but I have found to be common themes that, when corrected, can bring relief. Regular prostate massage can help alleviate or prevent many ailments of the prostate and can also improve ED, as can deep pelvic release. This can be done with a skilled practitioner, or with self-massage, and there are devices available to assist this process. Even the yogis, way back when, knew how important this was. I address the energetic issues that I see are the root causes of these issues, and I will teach you how to bring healing awareness to your root center, and to move stagnant energy, which in turn will greatly improve your condition. I will also assess risk factors and can give you many helpful suggestions and resources as to how to heal yourself.
DO YOU WORK WITH WOMEN WHO HAVE HAD SEXUAL TRAUMA?
Absolutely. As an emergency medicine nurse, I helped treat many women in acute phases of domestic and sexual trauma, and in this work, I am able to help women release that trauma and heal very deep wounds. I am extremely gentle and compassionate. As we build a trusting relationship and create a safe container, we can decide together what methods will work best for you.
Most women have had some sort of trauma... we can work together to uncover and clear your traumas so you can become more expansive and vital in your womb center. My goal is to help you open up space so you can begin to cultivate empowered pleasure. I have very safe and gentle ways of helping you heal timelines so you can return to wholeness as a sovereign being.
DO YOU WORK WITH PEOPLE WITH PTSD?
Yes, this is one of the areas that I am most passionate about. We will create a safe container and move at a pace that is comfortable for you. In my experience, re-living trauma is not helpful, but I do have very effective ways of helping you to release the trauma, heal the wounds, and make space for joy and pleasure. All healing is possible. It takes courage and the knowing you are safe. You will find this both in our distance sessions and in-person sessions.
DO YOU WORK WITH COUPLES?
I love working with couples! If you are interested in creating a more intimate presence with your partner, clearing resentments and opening space, and learning how to better communicate with one another, I would be honored to work with you. If you have a desire to move to a higher vibration of sexual union with one another and to learn how to truly honor one another, I can work wonders with you.
HOW SHOULD I PREPARE FOR MY FIRST SESSION?
I will be sending you a lot of basic information before our session and will be asking you to answer a series of questions designed to help you start reflecting on what it is you want to get out of session so we can maximize our time. The best thing you can do is put aside expectations and move into a state of receiving and allowing. It is natural to have some anxiety before session, and this is actually a good thing! This just tells us to be present and pay attention. You are coming to release and rewire, and the ego and the mind will often do anything to talk you out of that because they don't like change and they like to be in control. You are being led here by your intuition and higher Self. Trust it.
WHAT SHOULD I EXPECT FROM MY FIRST SESSION?
Because we are all so unique and continually evolving, every experience in each session can vary greatly from the last. We will have a general direction and focus for our session but we will not limit the experience by sticking to a "plan." The whole point of session is to learn to trust, allow, and let go. You will definitely take home new tools with you to help you with whatever you are working on. I will assess your posture and other lifestyle activities to determine some of the physical root causes of what might be creating blockages and resistance. There is always so much to work on and we can only do so much in one session. I am guided intuitively and will focus on whatever is needed at that particular time.
WHAT IS A PRIESTESS?
A priestess is simply one who has been initiated into a order of priestesshood. There are many priestess orders. At this time, I align with the Order of Isis, and study the Sex Magic of this lineage, which includes Mother Mary and Mary Magdalen. A priestess unites spirit and matter. She understands the densities and dimensions beyond the physical, and is trained in alchemy. She understands that ritual, consecration, and intention are powerful ways to work with universal and cosmic energies, and she is in constant communication with the spirit that runs through all conscious organic beings. A priestess works with magic, as well as water, fire, earth, air, and ether. I am a priestess who works with light energy, and uses her powers only for the greatest purpose and highest good.
WHAT IS SEX MAGIC?
Many things... but for our purposes, sex magic is about learning how to alchemize our sex energy for the greatest purpose and highest good... to achieve God-realization, Self-realization, or enlightenment... we know it by many names. Sex magic is possible as an individual or with a dedicated partner, and we can use sex magic to manifest abundance in our lives.
DO YOU WORK WITH BIPOC - BLACK, INDIGENOUS, PEOPLE OF COLOR?
Of course, all are welcome. I have been working with people from all over the world, all races, all colors, all backgrounds for over twenty years, in very intimate settings. I have been trained in cultural sensitivity, and very much appreciate diversity. I believe in the Rainbow Race, the Tribe of Many Colors, and see that we are all unique and necessary parts of the whole.
DO YOU WORK WITH LGBQTS?
Most definitely. I am connected to these communities all over the world. People of all sexual orientation and sexual identities are welcome. Gender fluid individuals are welcome. You will find I have deep respect and love for this community, which I see as non-separate, and a necessary part of the whole.
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DISTANCE SESSION AND IN-PERSON SESSION?
Both are equally profound and transformational. The main difference is that in distance healing, you do not receive therapeutic touch. However, this enables us to go deeper in other ways. In distance healing, we often work more together in multiple dimensions, and focus more on things like soul contracts. I will ask you to place your own hands on your body in distance healing, and you will be actively engaged in sharing and navigating the experience, while in-person sessions are often more about allowing you space to completely receive.
WHERE DO YOU PRACTICE?
I am currently in the process of making Texas my home but don't have an official practice space yet. I am still traveling to Sacramento to see clients, as I have a wide client base there, and I also see clients around the world, generally when I am working on retreats and in medicine ceremony. I also have been working with several clients through online sessions, which are deeply healing and transformative.